By accident while looking for a foreign film, I came across a vid titled "The Brian & Justin Story" by fmrys. I clicked it and I'm so thankful I did or I would have missed knowing one of the best TV shows evah, Queer as Folk. From that point on, I was hooked on B/J and yes I call it "love story". In 3 weeks I watched all 5 seasons and enjoyed every single minute. I also Googled it and found Xie's awesome site (http://www.brianjustinlove.com) where I read all about "Teh Love", QAF fandom, fanfiction and Xie's Only Time series and fics (http://xie-xie-xie.insanejournal.com/51270.html).
At the same time, I stumbled across the Gale Harold and Randy Harrison Board (http://iheartjakecom.proboards.com/index.cgi) and Randy-Harrison.it and finally LJ (Getithere & randyharrison comms). And as they say, the rest is history.....I am now officially a fangirl and proud of it. No more lurking :).